Dating to Win

Dating to Win is the podcast for modern men who are ready to rise above the noise, stop playing games, and win in today’s dating world.Hosted by Matt Russo, this weekly show delivers bold, no-fluff dating advice for men who want real confidence, real connection, and real results.Whether you’re coming out of a breakup, frustrated with dating apps, or just ready to raise your standards — this podcast gives you the tools to succeed.Each episode breaks down modern masculinity, how to attract women without pretending to be someone you’re not, and how to build confidence that actually sticks.We cover everything from dating psychology and emotional strength to personal development, masculine energy, communication skills, and what women truly want in 2025.If you’re ready to become the kind of man women respect — and one you respect too — this is your show.New episodes every week.Modern dating. Real confidence. No bullsh*t.

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Episodes

Monday Dec 29, 2025

Episode DescriptionIs your phone the third wheel in your relationship? In this episode of Dating to Win, we dive deep into the silent killer of modern romance: social media. From "digital jealousy" to the endless comparison trap, we explore how likes, comments, and DMs are creating cracks in even the strongest foundations.We’re not just ranting—we’re giving you the playbook on how to social-proof your love life in 2025. Learn the signs of social media addiction, how to set healthy boundaries, and why keeping some things private might be the secret to lasting intimacy.In This Episode, We Cover:[0:00] Intro: Why we swipe more than we speak.[02:06] The Comparison Trap: Why their "highlight reel" makes your real life feel inadequate.[04:10] Digital Jealousy: How to handle the anxiety of "who is he/she following?"[05:00] Micro-Cheating: When does a DM cross the line?[06:07] The Fix: Practical boundaries to reclaim your connection.Connect with Dating to Win:YouTube:Dating to Win on YouTubeEmail : AdviceforDating00@gmail.com

Thursday Dec 25, 2025

Thinking about getting back together with an ex? In this episode, we tackle the controversial question: Should You Take Your Ex Back?If you are navigating the chaos of modern dating and wondering "is it worth it?", this Q&A session provides the brutal relationship advice you need before you send that text. We dive deep into the realities of dating in 2025 to help you make the right choice for your future.In this episode, we cover:The psychology behind why we want our exes backHow to spot red flags before you recommitThe honest truth about self-improvement after a splitPractical first date tips for when you're ready to move onAnswering viewer emails on: "Why am I single?" and finding love againWhether you are looking for dating advice for men or women, this episode covers the essential tips to stop you from repeating past mistakes.Timestamps: [00:00] Intro: The hardest part of dating today [01:30] Should you take your ex back? (The Brutal Truth) [04:45] Why you feel like asking "why am i single" [04:20] How to build healthy relationships moving forward [07:15] Modern dating Q&A: Viewer emails answered

How Shy People Find Love

Sunday Dec 21, 2025

Sunday Dec 21, 2025

Most shy men believe their quiet nature is a weakness in the dating world. They think they need to become loud, extroverted "party animals" to attract women. But the truth is, being shy isn't the problem—it's how you view your shyness that holds you back.In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down the psychological barriers that keep introverts single and reveal how to turn your natural personality into a dating superpower. You don’t need to change who you are; you just need to change your strategy.In this episode, you will learn:Why "shyness" and "lack of confidence" are two different things.The "Introvert Trap" that ruins dates before they even start.How to use your listening skills to outperform loud extroverts.Actionable steps to start dating without fake "pickup artist" tricks.Connect with Dating to Win:YouTube:Dating to Win ChannelInstagram: @DatingToWinEmail: advicefordating00@gmail.com

Wednesday Dec 17, 2025

63% of single men have given up on dating. In this episode, we explore why modern dating is pushing men to walk away, what this means for women, and whether there's a path forward for both sides.Get real talk on relationship dynamics, dating strategies, and the hidden costs when men check out of the dating market. We break down the dual perspective - understanding both what's driving men away and what women need to know about this seismic shift in modern relationships.Essential listening for anyone navigating modern relationships and understanding what's really happening between men and women in 2025.Topics covered:• The 63% statistic and what it really means• Why modern dating broke men• The real cost of walking away• What women don't understand about male withdrawal• Both sides of the dating crisis• Actionable paths forward for singlesPerfect for: Singles looking for dating advice, women seeking to understand men, relationship coaches, and anyone interested in modern dating dynamics.Host: Dating to Win - Your essential resource for mastering modern dating, relationships, and self-improvement.Contact: AdviceforDating00@gmail.comyoutube.com/@Datingtowin25

Sunday Dec 14, 2025

Are you in a trauma bond or real love? This psychology podcast reveals 7 warning signs of trauma bonding with a narcissist—and why most people miss the most critical red flag.If you're dealing with emotional abuse, gaslighting, or manipulation tactics in a toxic relationship, understanding these signs could save you years of pain. This is no-BS relationship advice backed by psychology research.🚨 7 Signs You're Trauma Bonded (Not in Love):0:00 - Introduction: Trauma Bond vs Love1:50 - Sign #1: Intermittent Reinforcement (The Addiction Cycle)2:15 - Sign #2: Walking on Eggshells (Constant Anxiety)2:45 - Sign #3: Isolation from Support System3:16 - Sign #4: The One Most People Miss (Critical!)4:02 - Sign #5: Cognitive Dissonance (Reality Distortion)4:35 - Sign #6: Justifying Their Behavior (Making Excuses)5:20 - Sign #7: Fear of Leaving (Emotional Paralysis)6:02 - Why Trauma Bonds Happen (Psychology Explained)9:04 - How to Break Free (5 Action Steps)12:17 - Final Thoughts & Resources💡 What You'll Learn:✅ How to identify trauma bond vs genuine love✅ Why narcissist trauma bonding uses manipulation tactics✅ The psychology behind gaslighting and emotional abuse cycles✅ 5 concrete steps for breaking trauma bonds✅ How to rebuild mental health after leaving a toxic relationshipThis isn't just theory—these are proven strategies for recognizing and escaping trauma bond relationships. Whether you're currently trapped or helping someone else, these relationship red flags will give you clarity.📚 Crisis Resources:• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233• Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741• RAINN: 1-800-656-4673🎥 WATCH THE FULL VIDEO VERSION:YouTube: https://youtube.com/@datingtowin25📧 BUSINESS/COLLABORATION:adviceforDating00@gmail.com🎯 About Dating to Win:No-BS dating and relationship advice for navigating modern relationships. We cut through the noise to give you actionable psychology-backed strategies that actually work.Subscribe for weekly episodes on dating psychology, relationship red flags, and self-improvement strategies for men and women.#MentalHealth #Psychology #Narcissist #TraumaBond #ToxicRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #Gaslighting #EmotionalAbuse #DatingAdvice #Podcast

Tuesday Dec 09, 2025

Why do we keep choosing the same type of partner — even when we swear we won’t do it again? In this episode of Dating to Win, Matt breaks down the psychological patterns that pull us toward the same personalities, the same red flags, and the same relationship outcomes… even when we know better.You’ll learn:The subconscious forces that shape who you’re attracted toHow childhood experiences create your “relationship blueprint”Why familiar dysfunction feels safer than real intimacyThe role of attachment styles in choosing partnersHow to finally break the cycle and choose better for yourselfIf you've ever asked yourself, “Why do I always end up with the same kind of person?” — this episode gives you clarity, truth, and a plan to change it.✅ SHOW NOTESTopics Covered in This Episode:Understanding your subconscious relationship patternsWhy familiarity often feels like compatibilityYour attachment style and how it affects partner choiceTrauma bonding & emotional repetition loopsHow rejection and self-worth shape attractionBreaking the cycle: choosing partners from a healed placeListen if you struggle with:Choosing partners who aren't good for youRepeating the same dating mistakesFeeling “stuck” in similar relationship patternsWanting to understand your attraction psychologyHealing your emotional patterns to attract betterFollow the show: Dating to Win Podcast Hosted by Motivational Coach Matt Russo TikTok: @date2winYouTube: Dating to Win Email: advicefordating00@gmail.com

Sunday Dec 07, 2025

Dating Older Women: What Nobody Tells You reveals the truths most people never talk about. Older women bring confidence, clarity, emotional maturity, and an energy that younger men often find magnetic — but the real reasons go much deeper.In this episode, Matt breaks down:Why dating older women feels easier and less stressfulThe emotional maturity that changes everythingWhy older women communicate differently (and better)How confidence can be more attractive than ageThe hidden benefits younger men don’t realize until they experience itAnd why age-gap dating is rising fast in 2025Whether you’ve dated older women before or you’re just curious about the dynamic, this episode exposes the truth about attraction, connection, and compatibility.🎙️ Hosted by Matt Russo — Dating to Win Podcast✅ Show NotesEpisode: Dating Older Women: What Nobody Tells You Host: Matt RussoWhat You’ll Learn:Why older women often know exactly what they wantThe relief of dating someone who’s emotionally stableWhy intimacy is often stronger and more genuineHow expectations change with maturityWhy younger men feel more respected and valuedWhat stereotypes get completely wrongThe secret advantages most men overlookMain Message: Dating older women isn’t about age — it’s about alignment, energy, maturity, and connection.✅ 3. Chapters & Timestamps0:00 – Intro: The Truth No One Talks About 1:10 – Why Dating Older Women Feels Easier 3:00 – Communication & Emotional Maturity 5:20 – Confidence: The Real Attraction 7:40 – Why Younger Men Feel More Appreciated 9:30 – The Stereotypes vs Reality 11:10 – What Men Don’t Realize Until Later 13:20 – Why Age-Gap Dating Is Rising in 2025 15:00 – Final ThoughtsDating older women is one of the most misunderstood parts of modern dating — but the truth will surprise you.Older women bring emotional stability, deep communication skills, confidence, and clarity. For many younger men, that creates a healthier, more meaningful connection than relationships with women their own age.In this Dating to Win episode, Matt Russo breaks down: • Why dating older women feels easier and more peaceful • The emotional maturity difference that changes everything • Why confidence is more attractive than age • How older women communicate (and why it’s so refreshing) • Why younger men feel more appreciated and respected • The reality behind age-gap dating in 2025📌 Subscribe for weekly episodes YouTube.com/@DatingtoWin25🎧 Listen on RSS.com (insert your episode link)📩 Email for questions: advicefordating00@gmail.com 📸 TikTok: tiktok.com/@date2win

Tuesday Dec 02, 2025

Why Dating Apps Are Losing to AI Girlfriends — Dating to Win PodcastModern dating apps feel more like part-time jobs than pathways to real connection. Endless swiping, ghosting, mixed signals, and hours of wasted time have pushed millions of men into dating burnout. But now, a new shift is happening — AI companions and AI-driven matchmaking are changing everything.In this episode, Matt Russo breaks down why dating apps are failing, how AI girlfriends became a global trend, and what the future of love will look like by 2027. From emotional compatibility scoring to AI-powered speed dating, this episode explains why the next evolution of dating won’t be about more matches — it will be about better ones.In this episode:Why dating apps waste so much timeThe rise of AI girlfriend cultureHow AI will predict compatibility (tone, humor, micro-expressions)Why emotional intelligence will matter more than looksThe end of the “free dating app era”Why 2026 dating will be faster, smarter, and more intentionalWhy AI can filter matches, but real chemistry still depends on youIf you’re tired of the dating grind, this episode gives you a look into how the future actually gets better.Subscribe for more dating advice for men in 2025 and beyond.📧 Contact: advicefordating00@gmail.com YouTube: YouTube.com/@DatingToWin25

Tuesday Nov 25, 2025

Feeling drained or burned out? You’re not tired — you’re unfulfilled. In this episode, we reveal why life and dating feel heavy and how to reignite purpose, confidence, and energy in 2025.If you’ve been feeling exhausted, burned out, or emotionally numb, this episode of Dating to Win is going to hit home. Most people aren’t tired — they’re unfulfilled. And that’s a completely different kind of exhaustion.We break down why your routine, job, habits, and relationships may be draining your energy, and how lack of purpose spreads into dating, confidence, and emotional connection.In this episode you’ll learn:• Why sleep doesn’t fix this type of burnout • How unfulfillment sabotages your dating life • The science behind dopamine and motivation • The routines that quietly kill your spark • Viktor Frankl’s life-changing insight on purpose • How to rebuild fulfillment starting tonight • Why real attraction begins with alignment, not exhaustionYou don’t attract love from burnout — you attract it when you feel alive, confident, and purpose-driven. This episode is your roadmap back to feeling like yourself again.Email: advicefordating00@gmail.com TikTok: @date2win YouTube: DatingtoWin25

Tuesday Nov 18, 2025

Stop Your Dating Self-Sabotage NowIf you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same dating patterns, pushing away good people, or sabotaging something that could have been great — this episode breaks it all down.We explore:• Why people self-sabotage in dating • How fear, insecurity, and past wounds shape your choices • The emotional “fear cycle” that ruins good connections • Why you push away the right people and chase the wrong ones • How to become emotionally available • How to break the cycle starting todayThis episode is designed for both men and women who want healthier relationships, better self-awareness, and a deeper understanding of their own patterns.If you’re serious about improving your dating life, this is the episode that will finally help you see what’s been holding you back — and what to do to fix it.📧 Contact InfoFor questions, advice, or episode suggestions: advicefordating00@gmail.com

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