Dating to Win

Dating to Win is the podcast for modern men who are ready to rise above the noise, stop playing games, and win in today’s dating world.Hosted by Matt Russo, this weekly show delivers bold, no-fluff dating advice for men who want real confidence, real connection, and real results.Whether you’re coming out of a breakup, frustrated with dating apps, or just ready to raise your standards — this podcast gives you the tools to succeed.Each episode breaks down modern masculinity, how to attract women without pretending to be someone you’re not, and how to build confidence that actually sticks.We cover everything from dating psychology and emotional strength to personal development, masculine energy, communication skills, and what women truly want in 2025.If you’re ready to become the kind of man women respect — and one you respect too — this is your show.New episodes every week.Modern dating. Real confidence. No bullsh*t.

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Apr 23, 2026

7 min

Dating in 2026 is broken — and these real questions reveal exactly why modern relationships feel confusing, inconsistent, and frustrating.
If you’ve been dealing with ghosting, situationships, emotional unavailability, or mixed signals, you’re not alone. In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down real questions from young adults across the country and give honest, direct answers about what’s really happening in dating today.
Modern dating isn’t failing because people don’t want love…It’s failing because people don’t know how to handle it.
🎯 WATCH THE FULL VIDEO HERE
https://youtu.be/JM8NG3rCfas
📩 COACHING / CONTACT
For dating advice or 1-on-1 coaching:📧 advicefordating00@gmail.com
 
 
 
 

Apr 23, 2026

7 min

Apr 19, 2026

35 min

I lost half a million dollars to an online dating scam… and it started with a simple connection on Tinder.
In this episode of Dating to Win, I sit down with Sue, who shares her real story of being targeted, manipulated, and financially devastated by a romance scam that began on a dating app.
This is not just a story about money — it’s about emotional manipulation, trust, and how scammers build relationships that feel completely real.
In this interview, Sue explains:• How the relationship started on Tinder  • How trust was built over time  • The warning signs she missed  • The moment money became involved  • The emotional impact after the scam  
Romance scams and online dating scams are one of the fastest-growing threats in modern dating, especially for people over 50.
According to the Federal Trade Commission, Americans have lost over $1.1 billion to romance scams in a single year — and most cases go unreported.
If you or someone you know is using dating apps, this episode could prevent a life-changing mistake.
💬 This is not about intelligence — it’s about emotional manipulation.
📩 Contact / Coaching:Email: advicefordating00@gmail.com
If you or someone you know has been affected by a dating scam and would like to share your story, reach out confidentially.
🔗 Resources for Romance Scams
If you believe you or someone you know may be dealing with a romance scam, these resources can help with reporting, recovery, and support:
🛑 Report a Scam:• FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3): https://www.ic3.gov/• Federal Trade Commission (FTC): https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/
📚 Education & Awareness:• ScamSpotter: https://www.scamspotter.org  • Fight Cybercrime: https://fightcybercrime.org  
🎥 Support & Recovery:• Romance Scam Recovery Group (Video Resource)
🧠 Additional Resources: Understanding & Recovery
• Psychology Today – “I Love You, Now Pay”:  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/human-hacking/202112/i-love-you-now-pay-understanding-romance-scams
• The Role of Grooming in Online Scams:  https://fightcybercrime.org/blog/the-role-of-grooming-in-online-scams/
• The Power Behind Saying No Online:  https://fightcybercrime.org/blog/the-power-behind-saying-no-online/
• Activities to Help After a Scam:  https://fightcybercrime.org/blog/activities-to-fill-the-void-after-a-scam/
• Coping with Stress & Tough Times:  https://www.helpguide.org/articles/stress/surviving-tough-times.htm
🚨 Immediate Support (Mental Health & Crisis)
If you feel your life is in danger, please call 911.
If you are experiencing emotional distress or thoughts of self-harm, support is available 24/7:
• Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Dial 988 or visit https://988lifeline.org  • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 or visit https://www.crisistextline.org
🔑 Keywords:online dating scam, romance scam story, tinder scam, 500k scam story, emotional manipulation, dating scams over 50, catfish scam, online relationship scam, dating safety
If this episode impacted you, please share it with someone who may need to hear it.
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Apr 19, 2026

35 min

Apr 16, 2026

5 min

Romance scams and online dating scams are rising at an alarming rate, especially for people over 50, and millions of dollars are being lost every year.
In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down how romance scams actually work, the emotional triggers scammers use, and why so many smart, successful people fall victim to these highly manipulative schemes.
These scams are not about intelligence — they are about emotional connection, trust, loneliness, and the human desire to feel understood. Scammers follow a calculated process designed to build relationships, gain trust, and create situations that lead to financial loss.
In this episode, you’ll learn:• How romance scammers find and target victims  • The step-by-step process used in online dating scams  • The emotional manipulation tactics that override logic  • The biggest warning signs people ignore  • How to protect yourself or someone you care about  
According to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), Americans have lost over $1.1 billion to romance scams in a single year, making this one of the most financially and emotionally damaging types of fraud.
And in our next episode, we sit down with a woman who was scammed out of $500,000, sharing exactly how it happened and what she wishes she knew before it was too late.
If you or someone you know is dating online — especially later in life — this is an episode you cannot afford to miss.
📩 Contact / Coaching:Email: advicefordating00@gmail.com
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Apr 16, 2026

5 min

Apr 14, 2026

5 min

Most relationships don’t end with a breakup… they end quietly.
In this episode, we break down the real signs your relationship is already over — even if everything seems fine on the surface. If you’ve been feeling emotionally disconnected, questioning your relationship, or wondering how to know when to break up, this episode will give you clarity.
We cover the subtle but powerful signs that a relationship is ending, including emotional disconnection, forced conversations, lack of future planning, and the moment you mentally start moving on.
If you’ve ever asked yourself:Is my relationship over?Why does my relationship feel different?Should I stay or walk away?
This episode is for you.
 
0:00 – Intro: Your Relationship Is Already Over0:25 – The Truth Most People Miss0:55 – Sign #1: Emotional Disconnection1:40 – Sign #2: Conversations Feel Forced2:20 – Sign #3: You Stop Caring About Their Opinion3:00 – Sign #4: No Future Being Talked About3:40 – Sign #5: You Feel Relief When They’re Gone4:15 – Sign #6: Physical Intimacy Changes4:45 – Sign #7: You’re Mentally Moving On5:10 – Final Message
 
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Apr 14, 2026

5 min

Apr 8, 2026

6 min

Emotionally unavailable? Here’s what’s actually happening in your dating life — and why so many people today struggle to build real, meaningful relationships.
In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down emotional availability, why people become emotionally unavailable, and how it impacts your ability to connect, attract, and build lasting relationships. If you’ve ever felt disconnected, stuck in repeating patterns, or unable to fully open up in dating, this episode will give you clarity.
Modern dating has made connection easier — but real emotional connection harder. This episode explains why that is, and what you can do to change it.
If you’re serious about improving your dating life and building real relationships, this is a must-listen
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Apr 8, 2026

6 min

Apr 2, 2026

5 min

Do zodiac signs really predict relationships, compatibility, and dating success? Or are we giving astrology too much power in modern dating?
In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down the truth about zodiac signs in relationships and why there’s no scientific evidence linking astrology to compatibility.
 
Do zodiac signs really predict relationships, compatibility, and dating success? Or are we giving astrology too much power in modern dating?
In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down the truth about zodiac signs in relationships and why there’s no scientific evidence linking astrology to compatibility.
From Leo personality traits to Scorpio intensity and Gemini behavior, we explore how astrology shapes beliefs—and how those beliefs can influence your behavior in dating.
More importantly, we explain what actually makes relationships work:
Communication
Emotional maturity
Accountability
Self-awareness
If you’ve ever said “I don’t date a Gemini” or judged someone based on their zodiac sign, this episode will challenge your thinking.
Because real compatibility isn’t written in the stars—it’s built through behavior.
 
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Apr 2, 2026

5 min

Mar 31, 2026

6 min

Emotional cheating is more common than people think, and most people miss the signs. In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down 4 signs they’re emotionally cheating without actually cheating—and what it really means for your relationship.
If something feels off but you can’t prove anything, this episode explains why. Emotional cheating doesn’t always look like physical cheating, but it can damage trust, connection, and intimacy just the same. You’ll learn how to recognize subtle behaviors like secrecy disguised as privacy, emotional energy being redirected, defensiveness instead of repair, and the loss of real connection.
If you’ve ever felt like “nothing happened… but something changed,” this episode will help you understand exactly what’s going on.

Mar 31, 2026

6 min

Mar 26, 2026

5 min

Why do so many people feel empty… even when everything in their life looks fine?
We’ve been taught to chase happiness.To follow what feels good.To walk away from anything that doesn’t.
But what if that mindset is exactly what’s leaving people feeling lost, unfulfilled, and disconnected?
In this episode of Dating to Win, we break down why chasing happiness doesn’t work—and what actually leads to a life that feels meaningful.
You’ll learn:
Why happiness was never meant to lead your life
Why so many people feel “off” but can’t explain why
The difference between happiness and purpose
How to stop feeling empty and start building something real
Because happiness comes and goes…But a life built with direction is something you can stand on.

Mar 26, 2026

5 min

Mar 8, 2026

8 min

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common issues men experience, yet very few people talk about it openly. In this episode of the Dating to Win podcast, we explore the real reasons why premature ejaculation happens and why anxiety and pressure often make the problem worse.
Many men assume finishing too quickly is purely physical, but performance anxiety, stress, and mental pressure are often the real causes. Understanding how your nervous system reacts during intimacy can help you regain control and build confidence.
In this episode you’ll learn:
• Why premature ejaculation happens• The psychological triggers that cause men to finish too fast• How performance anxiety affects sexual confidence• Practical ways to last longer in bed naturally• How stress and mindset impact intimacy
Premature ejaculation does not mean something is wrong with you. With the right awareness and techniques, most men can improve control and confidence.
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Mar 8, 2026

8 min

Mar 5, 2026

5 min

Why do so many relationships fall apart over small things?
In many cases, it’s not incompatibility — it’s emotional immaturity.
In this episode of Dating to Win, we talk about how losing perspective and letting ego control your reactions can quietly damage relationships, friendships, and opportunities for real connection.
Too many people sabotage their own happiness by reacting emotionally to situations that, in the bigger picture of life, don’t truly matter.
A delayed text.A disagreement.A bruised ego.
When emotional maturity is missing, small problems turn into major conflicts — and good relationships fall apart over things that could have been resolved with perspective and humility.
This episode explores:
• Emotional maturity in relationships• Why ego destroys relationships• How people sabotage their own relationships• The importance of perspective and gratitude• How to stop overreacting in dating and life
If you want stronger relationships and better communication, emotional intelligence matters more than you think.
 
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Mar 5, 2026

5 min

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